Local Community Centers
Your public library may be the best free deal in town for a dad. Library resources for parents include parenting books and e-books, story times, early literacy kits, homework help, free classes, and in some places toy lending or parent resource rooms. This page walks through what to look for, how to use the library with kids at different ages, and how librarians can help you find other local services.
Offerings vary from branch to branch, so ask at the desk or browse your library system’s website.
Books, e-books and audiobooks on discipline, development, co-parenting and more. Audiobooks are great for commutes.
Free sessions for babies, toddlers and preschoolers that build early reading skills. Dads are welcome.
Some systems lend early literacy kits, toys, games, museum passes or tech.
Tutoring programs, online learning databases and quiet study space for school-age kids and teens.
A Saturday library trip is free, indoors and calm, a perfect outing when the weather is bad or the budget is tight. See indoor activities for more rainy-day ideas.
Librarians can help you find books on the specific thing you are dealing with, whether that is a strong-willed four-year-old, a child’s diagnosis or a divorce. If the library does not have a title, ask about interlibrary loan or a purchase request.
For a curated list of dad-focused reading and listening, see parenting books and podcasts. Phenomenal Fatherhood’s free short book, “Positive Discipline Methods,” is another resource you can read on your phone.
Libraries often host free parenting classes, job search help, tax assistance, ESL classes and community resource fairs. Many librarians keep lists of local social services and can help you fill out online applications if you do not have a computer or printer at home.
Some school districts and hospitals also run parent resource centers with lending libraries of their own. Ask 2-1-1 or your district’s family center if one exists near you.
Set expectations on the drive over: “We’re picking five books each and staying for story time.” Bring a tote bag so books do not end up in the car seat crumbs. Let your kids carry their own library cards once they are old enough. It builds pride and responsibility.
Keep library books in one basket at home so they do not disappear under beds, and set a phone reminder for due dates. Many systems have dropped late fees, but it is still a good habit for kids.
Pick one regular library time, maybe every other Saturday morning, and stick to it. Kids who grow up with a library routine tend to treat books as normal, everyday things. Share your favorite finds with other dads in the Phenomenal Fatherhood community, and visit local community centers for other places to explore.
FAQ
Depending on your library, you may find e-books, audiobooks, movies, early literacy kits, toys, games, museum passes and technology. Ask at the desk or check your library’s website.
Many do, along with story times, family events and workshops. Check your library’s event calendar or ask a librarian.
Attend story time, let your toddler choose books, read together in the children’s area and make library visits a regular routine.
Keep going
Local Community Centers for FamiliesLocal community centers for families offer classes, activity days, clinics and parent libraries. See how dads can find and use the ones near home today.
Parenting Books & Podcasts for DadsParenting books and podcasts for dads: how to pick sources you can trust, fit learning into a busy week and turn ideas into habits. Find your next listen.Indoor Activities for Rainy Days and Restless KidsRainy day indoor activities for kids that burn energy and keep the peace: obstacle courses, forts, games and kitchen projects. Pick one for the next storm.
Preschool Readiness ChecklistA preschool readiness checklist for dads: self-care, separation, routines and play skills to practice before day one, plus tips for choosing a program.School Readiness Checklists for DadsSchool readiness checklists for dads: what to practice before preschool, kindergarten and the first day, plus the social skills teachers notice first.Ask a question, meet other dads in the 24/7 room, or join the community for resources and support at every stage.
Join our 24/7 Room to meet and talk with other dads
Join Today