ONLINE SECURITY FOR KIDS

Online Security for Kids: Protecting Your Family Online

Your kids are growing up with the internet in their pocket. That brings learning, creativity and friendships, and also real risks: scams, oversharing, strangers and content no child should see. Online security for kids isn’t only about software; it’s a mix of smart device setup, clear family rules and ongoing conversation. This hub gets you started and links to deeper guides.

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Set Up Devices Before You Hand Them Over

The easiest time to set rules is before a new tablet, console or phone leaves the box. Create a child account rather than handing over yours. Turn on the built-in parental controls that come with most phones, tablets, game consoles and streaming services. These usually let you filter content, approve app downloads, limit purchases and set screen-time windows.

Also check your home Wi-Fi router; many offer family profiles and content filtering for every device on the network.

  • Require a parent password for downloads and in-app purchases.
  • Turn off location sharing for apps that don’t need it.
  • Set devices to charge overnight outside bedrooms.
  • Write down which accounts your child has and keep the logins.

Privacy and Passwords, Explained for Kids

Teach kids that personal information includes full name, school, address, phone number, birthday and photos that show where they live or go. Explain why: people online aren’t always who they say they are.

For passwords, help them create long passphrases, like three or four random words together, and keep them private from friends. Turn on two-step verification for accounts that offer it. Let them know you will have their passwords while they’re young, as a safety rule, not a punishment.

Online Security for Kids by Age

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Under 8

Use devices in shared spaces with you nearby. Stick to curated apps and kids’ profiles. Avoid open chat features.

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Ages 8–12

Introduce rules about chatting, sharing and in-game purchases. Review apps together. Talk about what to do if something feels weird.

03

Teens

Shift toward coaching. Discuss privacy settings, digital reputation, scams and relationships online. Keep some check-ins, but build trust and independence.

Scams, Strangers and Red Flags

Kids are targeted by scams offering free game currency, prizes or followers. Teach them never to click links from strangers or enter passwords on pop-ups. Explain that adults who ask them to keep secrets, move to a private app, or send photos are a serious red flag, and that they won’t be in trouble for telling you.

If someone sends sexual content to your child or asks your child for images, report it to the NCMEC CyberTipline at report.cybertip.org. NCMEC’s NetSmartz program also has free age-appropriate videos and activities you can use with your kids.

Dig Deeper

Each of these pages takes on a specific piece of keeping kids safe online. Start with whichever matches your current worry.

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Internet Safety

Family rules, screen time and safe browsing. See internet safety.

02

Social Media Awareness

Age limits, privacy settings and helping kids handle likes and comparison. Read social media awareness.

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Cyberbullying Prevention

Spotting it, responding and preventing it. Visit cyberbullying prevention.

FAQ

Common questions

What parental controls should I set up first?

Start with the built-in controls on your child’s device: a child account, app download approval, purchase restrictions, content filters and screen-time limits. Then add router-level filtering if your Wi-Fi supports it.

At what age should my child get their own device?

There’s no single right age. Consider your child’s maturity, why they need it and whether they follow current rules. Many families start with a shared or limited device and expand privileges over time.

How do I teach kids about online privacy?

Explain what personal information is, why strangers might want it, and what never to share. Practice with real examples, like reviewing a photo before posting to see what it reveals about location.

Can kids get around parental controls?

Yes, determined kids often find workarounds, which is why controls work best alongside clear rules and regular conversations. Check settings periodically and focus on building trust so your child tells you when something goes wrong.

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