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Parenting Support Hotlines and Helplines

When something goes wrong at 11 p.m., you do not want to be searching the internet. Parenting hotlines and helplines connect you to trained people right away, whether you are worried about a swallowed pill, overwhelmed to the point of losing your temper, or looking for local help with food or housing. This page lists national numbers worth saving and explains how to find local lines in your area.

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Parenting hotlines every dad should save

Take two minutes and add these to your phone contacts right now. You will not regret having them.

01

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

Call or text 988 for emotional crisis or thoughts of suicide, for yourself or someone else.

02

Poison Help

1-800-222-1222 for swallowed medicines, cleaning products, plants or anything you are unsure about.

03

Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline

1-800-422-4453 for parents who feel overwhelmed or concerned about a child’s safety.

04

National Domestic Violence Hotline

1-800-799-7233 for anyone affected by abuse at home.

05

Postpartum Support International HelpLine

1-800-944-4773, with resources for dads as well as moms after a new baby.

06

2-1-1

Dial 2-1-1 for local social services: food, housing, utilities, parenting programs.

Finding local helplines

Many areas also have local warmlines, parent support lines, crisis nurseries or county mental health crisis lines. 211 can tell you which exist near you. Your pediatrician’s office has an after-hours nurse line, and many health insurance plans offer a free 24-hour nurse advice line; check the back of your card.

Write the local numbers on a card and stick it inside a kitchen cabinet door. Babysitters and grandparents should know where it is.

What happens when you call

Many dads hesitate to call a hotline because they are not sure what to expect, or they worry it will get them in trouble. In general, a trained person will listen, ask some questions and help you figure out what to do next. Crisis lines exist to support you.

Be as specific as you can. For Poison Help, have the container in hand and know your child’s approximate weight. For a crisis line, it is okay to start with “I’m not sure why I’m calling, I just feel like I’m losing it.”

When to call 911 instead

Hotlines are not a substitute for emergency services. Call 911 right away if:

  • Your child is not breathing, unresponsive or having a seizure
  • There is a serious injury or heavy bleeding
  • Someone is in immediate danger of harm
  • A poisoning victim is unconscious or having trouble breathing

Teaching older kids about these numbers

Once your kids are old enough, usually in the early grade-school years, teach them how and when to call 911 and make sure they know your phone number by heart. Practice what they would say.

Teens should know about 988 too, both for themselves and for friends who might be struggling. Posting the key numbers on the fridge makes them part of normal family life, and talking about it calmly removes some of the fear.

Support between the crises

Hotlines are for urgent moments. For ongoing support, look into counseling services, support groups and the Phenomenal Fatherhood online community, where the 24/7 room is always open for dads who need to talk. You can also reach Phenomenal Fatherhood at 281-790-5262 or phenomenalfatherhood@gmail.com. Peer support is not a crisis service; use the numbers above in an emergency. For more community resources, see local community centers.

FAQ

Common questions

Is there a hotline for overwhelmed parents?

Yes. The Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline (1-800-422-4453) supports parents who feel overwhelmed, and 988 is available for any emotional crisis. 211 can also connect you to local parent support lines.

What numbers should every dad save?

988 for crisis, Poison Help at 1-800-222-1222, Childhelp at 1-800-422-4453, the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, 211 for local services, and your pediatrician’s after-hours line.

Can I call 211 for parenting help?

Yes. 211 connects you with local resources including parenting classes, family support programs, food, housing and utility assistance.

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