Newborn Care Toolkit

Health and Well-Being Basics for Your Baby

The first time your baby feels warm or won't stop crying, you'll wonder if you should call the doctor. Knowing a few baby health basics for new dads helps you handle everyday care with confidence and spot the signs that need a professional quickly. This page is education to help you ask better questions, not a substitute for your pediatrician.

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Pick a Pediatrician and Go to Every Checkup

Choose a pediatrician before the baby is born if you can. Your baby will have several well-baby visits in the first year, usually starting within a few days of coming home. These visits track growth, check development and keep vaccines on schedule.

Try to go to these appointments. You'll learn about your baby, build a relationship with the doctor and hear the advice firsthand. Write down questions in your phone between visits so you don't forget them.

Everyday Care Dads Can Own

  • Umbilical cord stump: keep it clean and dry until it falls off. Fold the diaper below it.
  • Bathing: sponge baths until the cord falls off, then short tub baths a few times a week.
  • Nail trimming: use baby clippers or a file while the baby sleeps.
  • Diaper rash: change diapers often and use a barrier cream. Ask the doctor if it doesn't improve.
  • Hand washing: wash before handling the baby and ask visitors to do the same.

Fevers and Taking a Temperature

For young babies, a rectal temperature is usually considered the most accurate. Ask your pediatrician how to take it and what number should prompt a call. In very young infants, a fever can be serious, so many pediatricians want to hear from you right away if a baby under 3 months has a fever.

Don't give any medicine to a newborn without talking to the doctor first, including over-the-counter fever reducers. HealthyChildren.org, run by the American Academy of Pediatrics, has clear explanations of fever and dosing questions to discuss with your doctor.

Warning Signs That Need a Call or Emergency Care

Save your pediatrician's after-hours number in your phone. Call 911 for emergencies like trouble breathing, blue lips, unresponsiveness or seizures. Call the doctor promptly for things like:

  • Fever in a young infant, as defined by your pediatrician
  • Fewer wet diapers than usual, or signs of dehydration
  • Refusing to eat or vomiting forcefully and repeatedly
  • Yellow skin or eyes that seems to be getting worse
  • Unusual sleepiness or difficulty waking
  • Crying that is constant and different from normal

Vaccines, Safe Sleep and Everyday Safety

Vaccines protect your baby from serious illnesses. Your pediatrician will follow a recommended schedule and can answer questions about each one. Make sure caregivers and visitors are up to date on their own shots, too.

Safe sleep practices from the NIH Safe to Sleep campaign, a properly installed car seat and keeping small objects out of reach are among the most important health habits in the first year. Keep Poison Help (1-800-222-1222) in your phone.

A Baby Health Basics for New Dads Kit

Keep a small kit in one place: a digital thermometer, nasal aspirator, saline drops, baby nail clippers, diaper cream and your pediatrician's numbers. Ask the doctor what else they suggest.

Your Own Well-Being Counts

Your baby's health depends on parents who are healthy enough to care for them. Eat, hydrate, sleep when you can and keep up with your own checkups. If you notice lasting sadness or anxiety in yourself or your partner, talk to a doctor. Read more on health and nutrition guides, family health and wellness clinics and the newborn care toolkit.

FAQ

Common questions

When should I call the doctor for my newborn?

Call for fever in a young baby, feeding refusal, fewer wet diapers, forceful repeated vomiting, worsening yellow skin, unusual sleepiness or crying that seems different. Call 911 for breathing trouble, blue lips or unresponsiveness.

How do I take a baby's temperature?

Many pediatricians recommend a rectal temperature for young infants because it's the most accurate. Ask your doctor to show you how and tell you what reading should prompt a call.

How often are well-baby checkups?

There are several in the first year, usually starting a few days after birth and then at regular intervals. Your pediatrician will give you the schedule.

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